English Small Talk Phrases

by Robby on September 19, 2010

 



Watch videos of English small-talk phrases above!

Hi my foreign English speaking friends! Here I’ve created a list of the most important English small talk phrases so that you never have situations when you get stuck when bumping into someone on the street or greeting your colleagues in the morning!

Also here you’ll find a good number of English phrases you can use to respond to typical greetings. And even more – some of the phrases below will help you add more substance to what you’re saying to your chat partner and also help you take time and think over the question.

At the end of the list you’ll find typical good-bye phrases and you’ll definitely find them handy when finishing off a conversation or even if you want to get rid of the person you’re chatting with! :-)

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Conversation Starters & Greetings

How are you getting on? – just another way of saying ‘how are you?’

You doing OK? – asked when the person has had some tough experience recently and you want to ask politely if they’re OK.

Hi, …! What’s new? – this is a very informal way of greeting a close friend or anyone who you see on a regular basis and you want to ask has anything happened since you last met.

Hi, …! What’s up? – the same as above with a difference that you’re probably not that interested in what news the other person might have.

Hi, …! Long time no see! – used when you haven’t seen the person for a long period of time and you want to state that fact in the greeting.

Hi, …! Have you been keeping busy? – just a standard enquiry with little or no direct meaning.

Do you mind me asking…? – a typical way of asking something that might be a slightly personal question.

OK, here’s the thing … – a very handy way to start making your point if you’re not sure how to begin the sentence.

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Typical Responses

Thanks, I’ve been keeping busy – just a standard response to a standard greeting with little or no direct meaning.

Thanks for asking, I’m fine, how are you? – a typical response and counter-question to a greeting phrase ‘how are you?’

Hi, how you’re doing! It’s good to see you! – a typical response to a greeting from someone you haven’t seen for a while.

Can’t complain – a response to a standard greeting like ‘How are you?’ It’s not as exciting phrase as ‘Thanks, I’m great!’ but it doesn’t mean you’re having some problems in your life.

Can you say it again, please? – a request to repeat the question if you didn’t understand what was said. This can also be used when the native speaking person speaks a bit too fast – they should get the hint and slow down a bit. But if they don’t, you can ask a more direct question:

Can you slow it down a bit, please?

And how about you? – a typical response when you’re not sure what to ask next so you’re asking the other person the same think they asked you. You can respond with this counter-greeting on nearly all standard greetings.

To the best of my knowledge … – when you’re 99% sure about the statement you’re making. Also a good start of a response you want to take a bit more time to consider what you’re going to say.

As far as I know … – the same as above.

Good for you! – a response to someone telling you about their success in something or some good news that they’re happy about.

Can’t argue with that – used when you agree with the statement of the other person.

How do you know? – a counter-question you can ask when someone surprises you with a question about something they’re not really expected to know.

That’s a good one! – a surprise response to funny or surprising news from your chat partner.

Really? Tell me more about it! – used when you want your chat partner to tell me about what he/she just said.

Frankly speaking, … – just a way to start your response. It indicates that you’re about to open up and be very honest with your chat partner. A great way of establishing an immediate trust.

Well, to be honest with you, … – the same as above.

No problem – a typical response to a small request you’re happy to do. This one is especially used when responding to superiors’ requests and it sounds more enthusiastic than if you simply say ‘sure’ or ‘OK’.

Never mind, it’s fine! - this phrase is used when the person offers to do a favour for you but it’s not really necessary.

Never mind, forget what I just said – this phrase is to be used when you said something that wasn’t important at all but your chat partner wants you to repeat it. You can also use this phrase if you feel that he/she might be slightly annoyed or offended by your question or comment so you want to end it there.

You got me there – this can be said instead of ‘I don’t’ know’ – it will sound more casual and not as defensive as the old ‘I don’t know’!

You’ve got to be kidding me! – said when someone tells you something that borders on the unbelievable and you want to express your surprise.

That’s a good question. – a phrase used when you want to take your time to think over the question. This is an ideal phrase to use when you’re stuck but instead of remaining silent you can start your response with this phrase.

Well, how to put it in the right words. – the same as above.

That would be great! – a response to an offer that you’re really happy about.

… you know what I mean? – this is quite an overused phrase but you can definitely use it at the end of a sentence if you want to emphasize what you just said.

You see, the thing is that … – this is how you begin a sentence when you’re asked to explain something.

Departure Phrases

I’d better be going – followed by a simple phrase like ‘it’s too late’, or ‘have lots to do’ – and indicator you’d like to walk off and finish the conversation.

OK, I’m sorry but I have to leave now! – used when your chat partner has clear intentions of continuing the conversation but you just need to go so you’re making it clear that you need to go.

See you later! – used when you know that you’ll be seeing each other again sometime.

See you around! – the same as above

Keep in touch! – a good-bye phrase meaning you want the other person to get in touch with you every now and then and that you’ve the same intentions.

It was nice seeing you, take care! – a good-bye phrase used when you know that you won’t see the person for a while.

It’s been good talking to you! – the same as above phrase.

Hope to see you again! – you can use this phrase when finishing a conversation with someone you’ve just met.

Say hello to …! – a short and handy way of saying to remind someone from you.

English Idiomatic Expressions

Now You’ve Finished Reading this List… What’s Next?

You’re pretty excited having found my blog and especially this list of English small-talk phrases, isn’t that right?

There’s one small problem though…

The chances are, you’re going to forget MOST of these phrases within a matter of hours, and next week you’ll be lucky to remember ANY of them!

Please don’t get me wrong – I’m not trying to insult your intelligence and imply that you have bad memory. It’s NATURAL to forget all kinds of information after just one exposure; it’s just human nature.

So I guess it poses the next logical question“How to make sure you can actually use such and similar phrases in YOUR daily conversations with work colleagues, college friends and people you meet?”

Here’s the Most Effective Way to Learn These Small Talk Phrases…

The best way of imprinting these small talk phrases into your mind is by utilizing spaced repetition. It might sound very technical, while in fact it simply means you have to repeat and memorize a phrase a number of times over a certain period of time.

Repeat each phrase three times.

Then do it once more tomorrow.

Go back to it after a longer period of time – say, a week or two.

This spaced repetition principle ensures that the small talk phrases you’re memorizing REMAIN in your ACTIVE vocabulary. It basically means you’ll be able to USE those phrases in relevant situations, and that’s definitely what you want, isn’t it?

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  • Johwayeong

    It’s authentic spoken English! Your blog really is helpful to me. Thank you so much robby :)

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    You’re welcome!

  • pandey

    thats cool mate, act’ly me too was thinking the same as you.firstly we need to think in english rather than r native language,as by doing this we will include many emotions and scentences in r brain and we wont have hav to translate it frm r native language.i wud lv to hear more such beneficial input from u…

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    Hi Pandey,nnThanks for your comment! As for more beneficial input – well… You’re welcome to read other blog posts and watch video episodes http://englishharmony.com/category/video-blog/ on my blog. It’s all about the same thing – how to speak naturally and fluently! ;-)

  • http://www.phrasemix.com/ Aaron @ PhraseMix

    Small talk doesn’t come naturally for everyone, even for native English speakers like me. I used to be told that I was too quiet, or even that I seemed rude or arrogant. One reason for that was that I never really made small talk with people. nnHere are the steps that I suggest for making small talk:n1. When someone asks you a question, answer it.n2. At the end of your answer, add some extra information. Like if someone asks, “How are you doing?”, don’t just say “OK.” Say “OK. I’m glad it’s not as cold today as it was earlier this week.”n3. Ask a question back to the other person.nnIf you follow these steps, you can continue to make small talk for as long as you both want to.

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    I’d say the second step is very important as it’s a natural trigger for the other person to say something in return!nnThanks a lot Aaron for your comment! :-)

  • varuni devi

    Hi Robby,nu00a0Am new to dis page……n i impressed a lot while i read those things :) it s really very helpfull to d person who want to learn good english…….. itz amazing…….. Thanks :)

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    Hi Varuni,nnThanks for your comment, I’m glad you find my blog helpful!

  • SWA RandomIdea

    What’s up? – Just to point out that there’s a difference in meaning between American English and British English – In AmE ‘What’s up?’ is like ‘What’s new?’, but in BrE it means ‘What’s wrong, what’s the problem?’

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    I don’t like focusing on differences between American and British English – why bother with it if you’ll be understood anyway? Especially taking into account modern media driven American English expansion into Europe.

  • Andy Lawrence

    Hey Robby. It’s a very helpful list of phrases. Thanks a lot. You do very good job. Many of phrases of the list I heard before but for some reasons couldn’t recognize them. Thanks again and please keep going this useful stuff!

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    Hi Andy,nnThanks for the comment and I’m glad you find this list helpful!nnIt’s very short and barely scratches the surface, but if you read my blog posts you’ll find many more sayings and phrases you can use in daily conversations highlighted in red.u00a0n

  • Kishor_praba

    Really helpful Mr.Robby

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    Thanks! ;-)

  • Kumar Ravish

    Thank u very much…

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    You’re welcome!u00a0

  • Foru40

    s….pretty interstng dude

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    Yeap, and pretty useful, too! ;-)

  • Senthilraja418

    yup its useful!!! thks

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    You’re welcome!

  • Runlolarun Faster

    give more.really i need it

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    There’s another blog post coming soon – check back in a few days!

  • SATHIS_KOZEKH

    Thank you MR ROBBY.Its helpful for me.Many of phrases of the list I heard before but some people dont no when and where to use the phrases.I hope this phrases will help us in our future.THANK YOU MR ROBBY

  • Hasangamethmal

    thank robby.i just start following your blog.itz very usefull bro.

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    You’re welcome and thanks for the positive feedback!

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    Thanks a lot!

  • Janna Bayan

    Thank youu00a0 Robby, it’s helpful for me.Just firs dayu00a0 hope i could improve my english

  • Pramodnm7

    its was nice robby sir…i just believe that it would be working for me ..

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    No problems! Just keep learning something new every day and you’ll be amazed at your long-term English improvement!

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    I don’t see why it wouldn’t be working for you – as far as you’re willing to invest some time and effort into the improvement process! ;-)

  • Genious

    It was very useful

  • Ramya Harikumar

    useful information

  • Pkjaya2010

    It is very useful to me.Thanks a lot.u00a0

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    I’m glad you find this article useful; check out the useful English phrases category to read related blog posts:u00a0http://englishharmony.com/category/useful-english-phrases/

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Kuldip-Baruah/100002153179855 Kuldip Baruah

    thanhs……………………..

  • Sahrishy

    This was very informative. I really want to improve my spoken english. I love to speak in english.

  • Mzrfslm

    Good Job

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    Thanks!

  • Sangeeta Sjar,a

    It was nice , I really liked it

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    Thanks!

  • Jason

    Ya, I do believe that this could be helpful for the users of English as their second or third language..Thanks buddy. :)

  • http://englishharmony.com Robby Kukurs

    No problem Jason, and I guess all the comments under this article speak for themselves – foreign English speakers do find these phrases helpful!

  • Prasheej

    HAI SAN

  • PALLAVI SOMANI

    informative………… n good one.

  • Mick

    as a voluntary English instructor I find this piece very helpful and informative.keep up the good work.

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Thanks Mick, much appreciated! 

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/OOY676DDK5DW56QYL3GNADCWGE Natalia

    thanks robby !! this will definitely help me a lot for small talk  every time people use these expression and i never know what to say except Hi!! and a stupid smile arghhh… 

  • Atif Elahi

    good Effort

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    No problem, I’m glad you find these phrases useful! ;-)

  • Rehanraza00

    you are amazing Thanks for the help I will be checking you for more updates!

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