English Small Talk Phrases

by Robby on September 19, 2010

 



Watch videos of English small-talk phrases above!

Hi my foreign English speaking friends! Here I’ve created a list of the most important English small talk phrases so that you never have situations when you get stuck when bumping into someone on the street or greeting your colleagues in the morning!

Also here you’ll find a good number of English phrases you can use to respond to typical greetings. And even more – some of the phrases below will help you add more substance to what you’re saying to your chat partner and also help you take time and think over the question.

At the end of the list you’ll find typical good-bye phrases and you’ll definitely find them handy when finishing off a conversation or even if you want to get rid of the person you’re chatting with! :-)

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Conversation Starters & Greetings

How are you getting on? – just another way of saying ‘how are you?’

You doing OK? – asked when the person has had some tough experience recently and you want to ask politely if they’re OK.

Hi, …! What’s new? – this is a very informal way of greeting a close friend or anyone who you see on a regular basis and you want to ask has anything happened since you last met.

Hi, …! What’s up? – the same as above with a difference that you’re probably not that interested in what news the other person might have.

Hi, …! Long time no see! – used when you haven’t seen the person for a long period of time and you want to state that fact in the greeting.

Hi, …! Have you been keeping busy? – just a standard enquiry with little or no direct meaning.

Do you mind me asking…? – a typical way of asking something that might be a slightly personal question.

OK, here’s the thing … – a very handy way to start making your point if you’re not sure how to begin the sentence.

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Typical Responses

Thanks, I’ve been keeping busy – just a standard response to a standard greeting with little or no direct meaning.

Thanks for asking, I’m fine, how are you? – a typical response and counter-question to a greeting phrase ‘how are you?’

Hi, how you’re doing! It’s good to see you! – a typical response to a greeting from someone you haven’t seen for a while.

Can’t complain – a response to a standard greeting like ‘How are you?’ It’s not as exciting phrase as ‘Thanks, I’m great!’ but it doesn’t mean you’re having some problems in your life.

Can you say it again, please? – a request to repeat the question if you didn’t understand what was said. This can also be used when the native speaking person speaks a bit too fast – they should get the hint and slow down a bit. But if they don’t, you can ask a more direct question:

Can you slow it down a bit, please?

And how about you? – a typical response when you’re not sure what to ask next so you’re asking the other person the same think they asked you. You can respond with this counter-greeting on nearly all standard greetings.

To the best of my knowledge … – when you’re 99% sure about the statement you’re making. Also a good start of a response you want to take a bit more time to consider what you’re going to say.

As far as I know … – the same as above.

Good for you! – a response to someone telling you about their success in something or some good news that they’re happy about.

Can’t argue with that – used when you agree with the statement of the other person.

How do you know? – a counter-question you can ask when someone surprises you with a question about something they’re not really expected to know.

That’s a good one! – a surprise response to funny or surprising news from your chat partner.

Really? Tell me more about it! – used when you want your chat partner to tell me about what he/she just said.

Frankly speaking, … – just a way to start your response. It indicates that you’re about to open up and be very honest with your chat partner. A great way of establishing an immediate trust.

Well, to be honest with you, … – the same as above.

No problem – a typical response to a small request you’re happy to do. This one is especially used when responding to superiors’ requests and it sounds more enthusiastic than if you simply say ‘sure’ or ‘OK’.

Never mind, it’s fine! - this phrase is used when the person offers to do a favour for you but it’s not really necessary.

Never mind, forget what I just said – this phrase is to be used when you said something that wasn’t important at all but your chat partner wants you to repeat it. You can also use this phrase if you feel that he/she might be slightly annoyed or offended by your question or comment so you want to end it there.

You got me there – this can be said instead of ‘I don’t’ know’ – it will sound more casual and not as defensive as the old ‘I don’t know’!

You’ve got to be kidding me! – said when someone tells you something that borders on the unbelievable and you want to express your surprise.

That’s a good question. – a phrase used when you want to take your time to think over the question. This is an ideal phrase to use when you’re stuck but instead of remaining silent you can start your response with this phrase.

Well, how to put it in the right words. – the same as above.

That would be great! – a response to an offer that you’re really happy about.

… you know what I mean? – this is quite an overused phrase but you can definitely use it at the end of a sentence if you want to emphasize what you just said.

You see, the thing is that … – this is how you begin a sentence when you’re asked to explain something.

Departure Phrases

I’d better be going – followed by a simple phrase like ‘it’s too late’, or ‘have lots to do’ – and indicator you’d like to walk off and finish the conversation.

OK, I’m sorry but I have to leave now! – used when your chat partner has clear intentions of continuing the conversation but you just need to go so you’re making it clear that you need to go.

See you later! – used when you know that you’ll be seeing each other again sometime.

See you around! – the same as above

Keep in touch! – a good-bye phrase meaning you want the other person to get in touch with you every now and then and that you’ve the same intentions.

It was nice seeing you, take care! – a good-bye phrase used when you know that you won’t see the person for a while.

It’s been good talking to you! – the same as above phrase.

Hope to see you again! – you can use this phrase when finishing a conversation with someone you’ve just met.

Say hello to …! – a short and handy way of saying to remind someone from you.

English Idiomatic Expressions

Now You’ve Finished Reading this List… What’s Next?

You’re pretty excited having found my blog and especially this list of English small-talk phrases, isn’t that right?

There’s one small problem though…

The chances are, you’re going to forget MOST of these phrases within a matter of hours, and next week you’ll be lucky to remember ANY of them!

Please don’t get me wrong – I’m not trying to insult your intelligence and imply that you have bad memory. It’s NATURAL to forget all kinds of information after just one exposure; it’s just human nature.

So I guess it poses the next logical question“How to make sure you can actually use such and similar phrases in YOUR daily conversations with work colleagues, college friends and people you meet?”

Here’s the Most Effective Way to Learn These Small Talk Phrases…

The best way of imprinting these small talk phrases into your mind is by utilizing spaced repetition. It might sound very technical, while in fact it simply means you have to repeat and memorize a phrase a number of times over a certain period of time.

Repeat each phrase three times.

Then do it once more tomorrow.

Go back to it after a longer period of time – say, a week or two.

This spaced repetition principle ensures that the small talk phrases you’re memorizing REMAIN in your ACTIVE vocabulary. It basically means you’ll be able to USE those phrases in relevant situations, and that’s definitely what you want, isn’t it?

I’ve Got Great News For You!

What if I told you I’ve compiled 900 similar phrases and expressions and also made it SUPER-EASY for you to memorized them using the spaced repetition technique?

Wouldn’t that be cool?

Believe it or not – but I’ve done just that, and here you can check out my unique software stuffed full of English small talk and many other phrases! It’s called the English Harmony System, and here are its main benefits ANY upper-intermediate and advanced foreign English student can avail of:

  • EH System imprints natural English phrases into your mind;
  • EH System makes sure you stop preparing speech in your head;
  • You develop ability to speak instinctively and spontaneously :!:

So, do you want to develop your ability to speak FLUENTLY and use all these and MANY MORE English phrases, expressions and idioms just like NATIVE English speakers do?

Then make sure to check out the English Harmony System RIGHT NOW!

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  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Thanks, and definitely drop back to my blog because I post at least 2 articles a week plus the occasional video!

  • Harry_potter_rose

    thnks

  • DJ Starr

    Robby – I enjoyed this article, but there are a lot of grammar and spelling errors in it. I´ve corrected it if you´d like a copy.
    Example: good-buy? 

  • Hijabuna

    thnx but i hope you add more, i m from iraq…

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Yeap, I’m planning to add another batch of small-talk phrases quite soon, so stay tuned!

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Even the mighty Robby makes mistakes! :-) ))

    Well, you see – I’m not perfect and making mistakes is natural. I proof-read and spell-check every single one of my blog posts, but it’s inevitable that some mistakes will creep in – no matter how hard I try.

    I know it may seem a bit strange that someone blogging about achieving English fluency comes across as a bad English speaker, but believe me – we’re all human and after all it’s quite easy to make a spelling mistake with homophones. “Buy” and “bye” is a typical example, and so is “your” and “you’re”.

    Thanks for pointing in out anyway, well spotted! ;-)

    Regards,

    Robby

  • coolguy23

    bro im trying to learn another language. Cause Im already fluent at english. Thanks your the man.

  • Jency-s

    is there any software which is used to communivate in english with us?

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Hi, here’s software I developed: 
    http://englishharmony.com/improve-spoken-english.php

    It’s called the English Harmony System 2.0 and works brilliantly to re-wire struggling English speakers’ brain and help with fluency improvement!

    Regards,

    Robby

  • Muthuvalliammai

    its awesome.this web page has given me loads of phrases that could be used in making casual conversations.thanks for the wonderful work.please keep me posted!  

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    No problem, thanks a lot for the comment, and I’ll definitely add more phrases to the list in the near future!

  • Shorifkhan

    nice
     

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Thanks! 

  • Burhan78

    nice

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    I’m glad you like this small-talk phrase list, thanks for the comment!

  • Kabhi

    This page gave me many daily uses sentences.Thanks for nice collection.

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    No problem, I’m glad you find this article useful!

  • Shajil.PT

    God bless You..It was very useful

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Thanks! 

  • deisy

    add more phrases please

  • Dhrubuonlyforyou

    mail me English speaking handout please

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    I definitely will!

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    I’m not really sure what you mean by that?

  • Abdul Jabbar

    this is very good attempt to teach English to every one  

  • Areeba

    Thanks for it. it was very helpful.

  • harpreet singh

    gud job for weak student student like me who used common speaking language nt high fi ………….. gud page

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    No problem, I’m glad you find these phrases helpful!

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Thanks!

  • Binna

    simply superbbbbb,,,

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Thank you! ;-)

  • sonam

    this really help me in improving my spoken english… i just want to ask what basic steps should i follow so that i don’t made any mistakes… as i am at learning stage..

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Rule #1 – learn naturally occurring phrases and word combinations.

    Rule #2 – once you’ve learned them and you KNOW what’s correct and what’s not – don’t worry about mistakes anymore!

    Please refer to this article for more info:
    http://englishharmony.com/how-to-improve-english/

    Regards,

    Robby

  • sonam

    thank you so much..!!

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    No problem!

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    Dear sir,

    i am speaking Hindi and Punjabi learn English but i don’t know how ….. please , help me ?

    paramjeetsinghkalsi@hotmail.com

  • shailendra

    A lot thanks for this ……
    It has given me a heartily solace to know more …….

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    Read this article for starters
    http://englishharmony.com/how-to-improve-english/ and let me know if you’ve any further questions!

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs

    No problem, I’m glad you liked this list of small-talk phrases! Now you’ve got to make sure to use at least a few of those in real life situations! ;-)

  • sachin

    Really helpful…Thanks Robby!

  • getahun

    now its time to learn other foreing languages and i’m confident from now thanks robby but keep on adding your phrases

  • Mansi

    it is nice site and i found it useful to me…….. :)

  • Khola

    Great help..My friend was in great need of such phrases. Please do upload other phrases as well
    Thank you

  • http://englishharmony.com/ Robby Kukurs
  • Bibekanand

    hii robby what’s up man…. seriously these phrases r too helpful fo me 2 use in small talks wid frnds…. if possible den upload some more links so dat i ‘ll take it n increase my stalk of phrases….

  • sharan

    Nice one robby

  • http://www.facebook.com/arpit.chauhan.5667 Arpit Chauhan

    thanks a ton sir .!!!!!

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