How to motivate yourself to learn English: 15 best keys to success
English is now essential for anyone. The world is increasingly dynamic and competitive, and having an excellent command of the English language offers you more perspectives. You and I, like everyone else, have ambitions, good intentions, many plans, but, as you know, motivation is the most crucial aspect, especially if it concerns language skills. So how do you motivate yourself? Here are 15 easy strategies to put in place to get impressive results quickly: 1. Make a deal with yourself. It helps to achieve any goal in general. This trick will put you in control of the situation and remind you that a deal is a deal. Be the best partner for yourself. It shouldn’t be a big goal for the first time, for example, to learn 5 words every day. Don’t forget to encourage yourself, see another example: “As soon as I finish this exercise I will have an ice cream”. 2. Fake it until you make it. If you don’t feel any motivation or enthusiasm, try to behave like you feel motivated and enthusiastic. Sounds like magic? It’s a simple brain trick that works! After a couple of hours of acting the game you will feel like the biggest fun of the task you have to do. 3. Set your goals. Great goals are great motivators. Think globally - what are your ultimate intentions? Travel? Find a new good job? Make new friends? Imagine the need to complete a task in the form of stairs to achieve the main destination. 4. Don’t rush yourself. Start doing the work slowly. In this case, your brain will not picture the mission as something that must be done immediately. What happens when the human brain feels the need for a rush? More often than not, you feel stressed and your brain “persuades” it not to begin work at all. Therefore, the slower is the better. Take your time. 5. Compare yourself to yourself only. Do NOT compare yourself to other people and their results in any case. If someone has achieved more than you, this can kill your motivation. Someone will always be ahead. Therefore, focus on yourself and your results. Just think about how you can improve them. Reviewing your results from time to time is a very important process. Such a review may surprise you very much in a good way; you will see how far you have already come to your learning improvement. 6. Write a success diary. Concentrate on your success, not your failure. Writing down what you did well will give you a sense of achievement. When you feel stuck just have a look at how much have you done already. 7. Find your idol. Find someone famous you are excited about and try to behave like he/she does. Read about them, observe, and collect all the information you searched. Try to understand what drives them to success. Let this person inspire you. 8. Have fun. You can discover something funny and captivating in every little thing you do. Try to enjoy doing it. Positive emotions are the best motivators. 9. Step out of your comfort zone. Start with the idea that you need to take only one small step at the time. Success from fulfillment will keep motivation at the right level. You can’t even imagine how much you can do using this method! This also will make your brain work better. 10. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes (check out this video). Reformulate the definition of fiasco in general; see it as a natural part of a successful life. Besides, try to find a valuable lesson in every failure and I learn from every situation. 11. Use visualization. Write reminders on the stickers; put them on a mirror, computer or doors. This will make it easier for you to remember the main things throughout the day, while staying focused on your work. 12. Stay positive. Despite everything, learn to think positively. Try to let go of negative thoughts before they completely take your will. Surround yourself with positive, energetic people and their bright mood will inspire you to achieve more. Print the English Harmony Motivational Poster and stick it to your wall! 13. Be creative. Use your creativity: make intelligence cards, write lists, sketch your ideas on paper, and more often, brainstorm yourself. Visual planning helps to increase motivation. 14. Reward yourself. Even if you have a lot to do, make a break for some time to do what you like. It will fill you with optimism and increase the quality of your everyday life. And this, of course, motivates you to achieve success. 15. No more excuses. The starting point is today. Our time is not unlimited. Focus on the current moment and do what you need to do. Right now.
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Here’s how to improve your English listening skills when listening to my video: put the headphones on, playback the video and write it all down while listening to it! Hello my fellow foreign English speakers! In this video I'm responding to one of my blog reader's comment where I'm being asked to respond to a number of questions in relation to improving English fluency: Help me in learning and speaking English. I need your help too much. I can't understand English songs I have to see lyrics than only I can sing the song slowly. But when my teachers teach us in English I can understand it properly. I can't watch the movie without using seeing the subtitle. Whenever I go to watch the movie cinema hall and when there is joke in movie I can't understand the joke. Please help me. Do I have to practice written English also? Tell me something Robby. I need your help very much. Whenever I have to speak English in front of people or student or with my friends words become less to me I can't understand what to speak in front of them. I can't ask any doubt from my teachers in English. Help me in English and suggest me something. And help me in improving my thought process also. I don't have enough words to speak with others. What to do tell me! And guess what? I decided to record a video response to this comment for the simple reason that that's the way I roll - instead of writing a response just for the person who asked me the question, I think it's best to record a video thus helping out all of you guys who might be having the same concerns in relation to your English fluency improvement! Robby P.S. Are you serious about your spoken English improvement? Check out my English Harmony System HERE!
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lR0LrAGwgP8 VIDEO TRANSCRIPT BELOW: Hi, guys! It's Robby here from EnglishHarmony.com with another video blogpost. Now, this time around, I'm going to be looking at the following question: “How to provide lengthy answers?” Say, for example, you are asked a question and the situation demands that you provide quite a lengthy answer. Normally, it's totally fine to answer using very simple, short sentences. Actually, it's one of the ways of getting your fluency back on track, and you may want to check out this particular article where I'm touching upon that subject, that there's nothing wrong with speaking in very short sentences because, for most foreign English speakers who are having these fluency issues, it's very challenging to speak using very long sentences. Oftentimes, those people will get very confused and it's all too overwhelming to handle that much information in one go. It's best to separate your thoughts into little, manageable pieces, right? But, other situations such as, for example, English exams, demand that you provide quite lengthy answers. Obviously, it just doesn't cut it in situations such as exams if you just provide one, short sentence as an answer, right? In most daily situations, that's totally fine. But, what to do if you find yourself in such a situation where you are actually required to provide quite a lengthy answer? And, as a matter of fact, this is a question asked by one of my blog commentators and here's the exact question, right? I'm going to quote: "I see you carry on for a long time discussing about a topic. How do you do this? Do you follow a certain method for a long time conversation on the topic? Please help me!” (more…)
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Â Recently I got interviewed by two English teachers for their websites – Ben who lives in Spain and Nate who’s settled down in Japan. These are my first interviews I’ve ever done, and as you can imagine, I had to use some of my own English fluency management strategies to keep a cool head, gather my thoughts and speak fluently because stress levels were high – especially in the beginning of those interviews! :grin: Listen to my interview with Ben HERE! And here you can watch 2 YouTube videos containing fragments from my interview with Ben: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5ZWgF1pCy8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTQ39kQxee8 Click HERE to listen to me talking with Nate! What you can expect to hear in those interviews is pretty much everything about my background as a foreign English speaker – starting from my years long struggling to speak English fluently and ending with useful tips for my fellow foreigners on how to maintain fluent English speech. You'll also find out in those interviews: what is a "writing mode" of your mind and why it prevents you from speaking English fluently (interview with Ben) why speaking with yourself is the best way to improve your English when there's no-one to talk to (interview with Nate) and a whole lot more! So if you've got nothing to do on this Friday night (or any other day of the week), sit down at your laptop or PC and listen to me spilling the beans about what real English fluency is all about: Listen to my interview with Ben HERE! Click HERE to listen to me talking with Nate! Let me know what you think in the comments below! ;-)